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Q A: Help Me Find the Clitoris!

When aroused, the tissue swells with blood and becomes erect, which is far less noticeable than its male counterpart. After a few minutes you should be able to feel the G-spot area swell beneath your touch. Sex is about practice and exploration - not about getting it right the first time  - so enjoy the time on your hands and have a good experience.

The vulva includes the mons pubis (which is the pubic mound the labia majora (those lips you love! This lube offers just enough stimulation and natural, non irritating ingredients, Geter suggests. It might take some time, but your payoff (and, ahem, hers!) will be well worth the effort. Singer says that clitoral stimulation is what women remember after they have sex and how they determine if their partner is good in bed or a disappointment.

Slow and steady wins the orgasm race when it comes to clitoris stimulation. Whether youre simply looking to get her excited or you want to show her the final destination, oral is a great technique, Singer says.