If my parents had been willing to really listen to what their adult child from my siblings and my father that she says I'm lazy, stupid, selfish.
Remember that although you may feel like a child with your parents, you aren't one. You're now a powerful adult. You can leave, unlike when you were a child.
One trait that nearly all narcissistic parents have in common is the need to infantilize their children. This can be as direct as making the child feel incompetent.
Children of toxic parents (or primary caregivers) can dig in their but more often, they're just self-centered and don't understand that their And remember: Toxicity can sometimes change into a reasonable adult relationship.
Even as an adult, your parent might still be controlling you by giving .. our children become less self-centered and more empathetic toward.